I am reminded so much of my sitch when I read yours. H and I did not email each other during the day before all of this started, but we did send silly texts to let each other know that we were thinking of each other. When my sitch started, the texts stopped. During the past 10 months they were on and off again, even yesterday, he texts me all day, today nothing until I ask about dinner plans.
Its funny how you say that OW is at work and you are not there. Before all of this craziness, you had no problem being seperated from H while he was at work and you were at work. But NOW, every minute away from you is a minute that he could be spending with OW. I know that is how I feel. Exspecially since H moved back home and OW found out, she went from not talking to him during the day (they would only use their unlimited night minutes) to knowing that he could no longer talk to her at 1 in the morning to calling him all day at work..God the man is at work. But for me the fact that he is at work makes me crazy because then he is talking to her. I cant put the blame on her, because he calls her too. Where as it used to be me that he called during the day. My H used to call me everyday when he got him from work to check in, that hasnt happened in 10 months. So believe me I know how you feel.
You are doing a good job at trying to remain busy. Keep it up, and I too understand that H is questioning you and you cant question him...It still happens to me...I have to tell him where I was if he asks, but he doesnt have to answer to me. The only solice I can offer you on that on is, they are buttheads right now...
I was worried about the money too to join the gym, but then I said what is $40 in the grand scheme of things, so I did it. think about it, ok
