I agree with Unsure on this one...Its not that they go unnoticed, for some reason, they feel that you should of been doing that stuff all along, somehow justifying their behavior and looking outside the marriage. Dont get frustrated, like I did, it hurt my sitch alot. Keep DBing. Tonight I joined a gym and guess what H had plenty to say about that...Kind words, advice for working out, etc. This is my plan to start GAL...You have to pick something that you would like to do and if it is a 180 than all the better. I didnt have the money to spend, but said I HAVE to GAL somehow. So I did it, and even tho it is only the first day, it feels great to know that H knew I wasnt sitting home. Get out sometime this week ok????
