You are doing better than you think. Have you thought about making a list of positive interactions? I think at the stage we are in we tend to focus more on the negatives than the positives. I think I'm finally starting to make that turn, just a tiny bit...you will get there too! Eventually his R with the ow will get old, it is not based on reality. You and your kids are. Keep the PMA and you are doing a great job on the no R/ow talk. You can still GAL...just give him notice and ask him to watch the kids.
Quote: Unfortunately I think backsliding hurts us big time.
No thinking about it...I have to say it's proven! Have a good night! Unsure