Quote: No clue as to H's state of mind. He pretty much acts mormal at home, a little moody at times. But we talk and act normal. But no R talk at all.
I think even if they told us their state of mind we wouldn't really know it anyway, unfortunately they are too confused to know their own state of mind! Funny, H and I act normal too, you would think, especially after this weekend we were actually a happy couple!
I am going to give some more advice that I don't follow, stop worrying about how much he is talking with ow...the bottom line is he is home with you everynight. It will take time but I think we both have a fair shot at a happy M.
Good job not bringing up ow or R...it does get easier with time...sometimes I have to bite my tongue.
Really got to get off this computer, it consumes so much of my time!