No clue as to H's state of mind. He pretty much acts mormal at home, a little moody at times. But we talk and act normal. But no R talk at all.
To give H a little credit (not that he deserves any). He does not go out on a whim. In fact he pretty much stays home. He doesn't stay late at work anymore and hasn't gone out or anything on the weekends either (except this weekend he went to get the oil changed in the car). He does hang out at home. I know from reading other threads that some H's dont do that. So I have to be grateful for that.
We once had a discussion a few weeks ago where I threatened to stop doing his laundry and getting him food at the store etc. He said fine, and I will go and do as I please when I want. So, I know I am doing the house stuff on my own for awhile. I would rather have him here. I just get frustrated at times.
I think he has reduced his talking time. No proof. I will have to wait until the cell phone bill comes in. I am NOT getting my hopes up though. That would be a huge disappointment and am not checking account online.
I keep holding onto his doubts statement about R with ow and know I have to keep things good at home.
I have a few ideas about GAL. H will watch the kids, it is just hard on week nights. He has watched them before on weekends. So I am planning for this weekend to do a few things on my own.
6 days no R or ow talk!!!!!! It is getting easier!!!!
Will check your thread and check in on you. I know how hard this is right now for you. Sherry
