DOnt worry...I have been in your place many times during my sitch....feeling completely overwhelmed with all of the house responsibilities, our daughter, saving a marriage. I really felt that way when H moved out...He was coming and going as he pleased while I had the responsibilites of our daughter. With all of those pressures building up you are bound to have a breakdown. Even now that my H is moving out (anyday now) he comes and goes as he pleases with no responsibilites...Woo hoo he does the laundry. He doesnt fold it, he just runs it. Whatever!
I know it is hard, believe me, but keep doing it. Right now your H is looking for an excuse. I know it sucks to know that you are doing all of this work while he is reading (mine used to and still naps all the time) and yet he has some needs met by you and others by OW. But if you keep following DB better than I did, you could save this and one day he will acknowledge all that you have done.
I know how hard it is to GAL with kids around. It sometimes isnt fair that you have them all the time and H can just go out on a whim...Lets start doing stuff with them and find some friends that are willing to give you a break for a few hours on the weekend. H doesnt even have to know someone watched them. If he cared he would watch them right?
How has H been behaving the past few days? Has he said anything that would give you any clues as to his state of mind?
