Yeah I usually do most of the house stuff and dealings with the kids. He would help occassionally. Usually I would have to tell him what needed to be done. His big gripe was that I would get upset because he would not do it on my timeframe.
I have tried to let things go but he does not pick up the slack, so I don't think that would be a good 180 unless I want to live in a pigsty.
GAL is hard. Had plans this weekend but it backfired (H beat me to the punch). Will try to do something though this week.
