Hi Sherry, sorry about your Grandmother.

This does get easier with time, keep doing what you are doing. Did you always do most of the stuff around the house? My H did way more than I did which is one of the reasons why I'm here...since he moved back home he doesn't do much at all....frustrating as hell. I feel like he's doing it for payback! Anyway, if you have ALWAYS done everything maybe you should not do something for a day or two. Would that be a 180?

Hang in there, you are doing great...keep up the no R or OW talk. What is one thing you are going to do to GAL this week??

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