I don't neccessarily think it is horrible if your kids see you cry as long as it isn't constantly. They hurt too and although we need to be strong for them it is ok to let them know that expressing emotion is ok. The most important thing is that they know that both Mommy and Daddy love them very much and no matter what is going on that will not change and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with them.
Hang in there...if you want to email H come here and post your email instead...
