Russ, Thanks, doing better. I will be a strong today. You are right about the kids. I often wonder what they think? They havent said much. But they know mommy has been a bear and have seen me cry. So that has to STOP. H has always been a little emotional and over the top, so I think they think his behavior is fairly normal. He has actually been a little better with the kids since this has happened. Go figure. You be strong for your kids too. Hope you have a good day. SherryL