Hi Sun,

Good to hear from you. I posted on your thread but I didn't see it there later so it must be lost in cyber space somewhere. I will go back and check in with you sitch.

Yea! One day down. Good for you, setting small goals (like no texting). I think I will take baby steps here and proceed slowly. No emails unless he emails first. I definately need to focus on me and the kids. I also need to THINK before I open my mouth.
In our R discussion before things got really ugly, H said he had been happy some at home. I also asked if he had lessened his contact with OW. I asked him to try and do this last week during another R talk. Last night he said yes he had (of course no details). I don't know though, he may have been saying it to shut me up. I will have to wait until the cell phone bill comes. I am not going on line and checking.
So I need to "act as if" and make home happy and safe (comfortable) that is what the phone counselor suggested.
Like I said one day down.
Take care and check in later.
Sherry