That's a good one. Thanks.
This whole process is just plain hard and confusing.

I just don't understand H's thought process. He comes home late and boy I better not ask about where he was. I came home later than normal last night with the kids, mind you, and he asks "Where were you?" He asks where I am going when I leave the house or where I have been when I come home. ???? I know if I ask him the same questions, H will get maaaaddd. If I just say out, he gets mad at that. I know if I point this out to him, he will not see it. Go figure. I guess I wait it out and hopefully this will change.

One day at a time is my new motto. Today, no R talk, no text messaging, and "act as if" I am happy at home.
Sherry