Stop obsessing...I know it is easier said than done...but it makes you feel like crap. Also, keep in mind that as I am saying this I have had IM on all night to see if he shows up online...of course he could be talking to her on the phone...but it easier to get through the day if you aren't constantly obsessed with what he is doing. I have a hard time believing that some part of them isn't thinking about us as they are betraying us...wishful thinking, maybe...I know if I was f-ing around my H would be in my thoughts, of course we are different creatures--the cheaters and the cheatees.
