Thanks Sun. Yeah, what you said is what I thought. I just hate giving him room to do what I know H is going to do anyway. I DON'T want to make it easy for him. He says he isn't seeing OW other than at work. I guess my fear is that telling him I wont be home for dinner will give him that chance. I also know he will get mad if I don't tell him. Sorry about you and your sitch. This just sucks. It certainly doesn't get easier. Sherry
