Russ,

Hang in there. If you focus on you and the kids, WAW may notice. She will get over her anger. Have patience.
I tried to call OW in the beginning and H was furious with me. Fortunately, OW did not answer her phone.
Focus on your PMA.
I know the feeling of missing doing the family thing. I have started taking the kids more and doing more without H just to keep from going crazy, but I do miss H not being there. It is hard.
But we have to think about ourselves and what we need. I am starting to do that.
Try staying positive.
Do you have a thread? I havent been able to find it.
Sherry