Sherry---this is not easy, you will backslide and it's ok, what you need to do is pick yourself back up when you do and move forward again. Eventually you will backslide less and less. Here is the link to my current thread....
No offense to NYsurvivor but do not give him an ultimatum, I agree with setting boundaries but keep them to yourself. Unless you are really ready for him to choose...at this point it probably won't be you. Not trying to be harsh, just realistic.
Quote: I am so tired of all this. It seems as if I am just making things to easy for him. I take care of the kids, I am nice,loving to him and meanwhile he continues here(whatever mood he wants to be in) and with OW. I hate this. I just want to give up.
I know how you feel, I'm pretty sure most people here do...there are success stories, read them, it helps! Why don't you post your goals here...make sure you you have specific individual goals as well as some R goals. Think in baby steps.
