I am sorry about your sitch. Mine is not too different. Fortunately my wife doesn't throw it in my face and supposedly it is over but she works with OM and I suspect the EA part is still happening. I can relate to the backsliding part. I had a bad weekend my self in this regard. My only advice is to realize that we cannot do the DB'ing to perfection but hopefully do it well enough and consistantly enough to make a difference. Hang in there and keep us updated.