H and I are both seeing C individually. At some point we will need to get back to MC but right now we need to get through the crisis mode. H is being very attentive but I am confident emails and correspondence continues between H and OW. Not necessarily to keep their relationship going but to discuss their break up etc. She is very needy and H is very compasionate and wont be cold to her. I told H he needs to stop the emails because OW knows I dont have access to email and that is just another secret they have together. No matter what I say to H he is going to do what he wants to do and I have to realize that. This is the most difficult part for me.