I have been busy with hubby so have not posted in monthes...just a quick update for those who helped me here....
My marriage is GREAT! I bit the bullet and did the jail time for the DWI...only got charged with Reckless Driving and have gotten my license back. My meds are on track...after a brief check in to the hospital...and my marriage is Wonderful! OH, and I'm driving again! Sober now for a year! Quit smoking!
Some of the things I do now....
Page H just now and then when he's at work and say Have a nice day honey or I just wanted you to know I love you or Hey babe, sure missing you....
Refrain from fighting over small stuff....remember how constant conflict almost drove us to divorce.....
Remember to thank spouse and treat him as I want to be treated
Got a life!
Made new friends.
Joined a gym.
Go to church. My life has just gotten better and better thanks to db'ing. Downside? Have to have a hysterectomy for health reasons on Monday....but the upside is that H could not be more supportive.....You see there is a positive in everything if we look for it...this is just a chance for H to pamper me and take care of me!