Hey, that's great! I hope he now has his head on straight, the T takes things to the whole next level. Myself, I would be asking him if he has gotten rid of all doubts and is fully committed. Perhaps he has seen what he could have lost, and where he has fallen short. Instead of struggling in the old mire he has chosen to move forward and upward.
As far as what you said in my sitch, yep your 100% right. When and what she plans on doing about it is yet to be seen. You don't know how many times people have said to me, "does she realize what she is doing". I just shrug my sholders. She has a close friend who is aware of what is going on. I just wish she would take her by the sholders, sit her down and set her staight. But I suspect most people don't have the strength to do so. My prayer right now is that someone will step up to the plate. Someone she respects, perhaps someone who has been through this themself and has made the right choice or wish they had. Just some cold hard reality that's close enough to home.
Some days I wish I could post video of some of the crap I have to go through. Not sure what the genre would be, my guess would be horror-comedy-sitcom. Couldn't classify this one as a movie, it doesn't seem to end. How I wish I could solve it in an hour.
