Thanks Hope. As long as I can stay AS IF and upbeat then I think things will continue to improve. At least with DB I feel that I have some way to direct things in the right direction. To take things to the next level I got to re-read 5LL and try to nail that down better. My dream is to have her excited about this R and want to do fun things with me, not as an escape from me(kids, work). I'm just thankfull today for the positive steps.