Well I blew it last night and once again got drug into a R discussion with W. Some of it was my own doing, most of it being out of frustration. Luckily I realed myself back in and came out of it intact. Today, thanks to DB and this board, I have been mostly AS IF and upbeat. It just amazes me that we are falling into the same type of R her grandparents had and wife couldn't understand. Maybe I'll call grandpa and get some pointers on how he rode it out. He made it 65 yrs., I guess I've got a few ahead of me.
Seems now a days I'm up against a W who has made up her mind that she doesn't want to do what it takes to work things out, but doesn't want to leave her kids. So we are stuck on the fence, just waiting for her to wake up and realize the damage she is doing to me and the kids. Some how I think pride is what has got us here, and she is to proud to step back, realize her error, change and bring this back together. So I guess we ride this ride a little further and see what the next day brings. I hope before this is all over I don't totally lose respect for her, right now it's certainly is being tried.
If any of you girls have suggestions, let me know. We'll better go and feed the kids. Someone has to do it.
