Well here's where I find myself. I am a very patient guy, otherwise I don't think I would still be here. Occassionally I will get a card(b-day) that says she appreciates my patience, but nothing that says she want's this to succeed. She will sit and talk to me a bit about what is going on in her life (non-R), but I see too many days where she's got the "why do I have to go through this look on her face.

On the positive side however she did stay for almost all of a week ago's SS lesson. How did that one sit on your end. A year ago she would have been figity and gone for long restroom breaks. Perhaps I just need to let things play out some more. My tank is pretty low, she needs to do some stepping up.