Yes this is quite a precarious sitch I'm in. As much as I have been quite a push over in times past, when I have stood up for myself lately, it has landed me right in worse shape than before (ie. the night I got the bomb). A couple of C sessions where W got called to the carpet resulted in her no longer wanting to go. W wants a strong and independent man like her father, but one she can control, who won't question her. Go figure that one out. I try to follow all the standard methods for how we have been taught to treat our "E companions". But since you've seen my story, it hasn't quite gone as the brouchere pictured it.