We do know how that will float, but we also have to realise that our WAS's think in a different way. It sounds like she thinks she is sacrificing herself to the M for the sake of God and the children. And, perhaps, she thinks that this will somehow be okay, and that this sacrifice will be blessed, and/or rewarded. Somehow, that thinking has to be changed to a more realistic viewpoint. Hope I'm making sense here. With a man, I think, it's easier to get him to see things in a logical manner, and this seemed to work for me. But, a woman is more geared towards emotional thinking, so perhaps you can find a way to speak to that side of her (which is a huge side)? I will think more on this .....
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
With a man, I think, it's easier to get him to see things in a logical manner, and this seemed to work for me. But, a woman is more geared towards emotional thinking, so perhaps you can find a way to speak to that side of her (which is a huge side)? I will think more on this ..... 
