Are we there YET?

[BeingMe]

I think that's when I was able to let go of the rope - the point at which I just didn't care one way or the other. Divorce/Don't Divorce - whatever! That was my attitude, ultimately. It made me feel that there was more to life then worrying about what he was feeling, thinking, or doing. I diverted my attention, and interest away, and suddenly he was thinking how interesting a creature I was.

I hope you get to that point, Phoenix! It is a place of peace. I am still there, really. I am working with H to keep our M, but in the back of my mind I am happy married or not.