Hi Phoenix--sorry you're down again. From what I can tell you've been at this since October? Remember it can take a month for each year of marriage. I've been married 10 years and it took 11 months for us to get back together. Please try to let go of your "victim" feelings, they won't help you and will put pressure on her.
I'm wondering what you would like to have happen if you did move back east and take the kids--would you hope this would bring her to her senses? Are you hoping to control the sitch by making this move? Will it bring her closer to you? What if you didn't move but you got on with your life as if you were away from her. Could you act as if you moved away from her and you are going to move on with your life?
