Hi Phoenix--sounds like you are just on a down day today. Some of your posts are pretty positive. Maybe you are wishing things would move a little faster than they have been. You must be patient and go by her timetable. Try not to worry so much about her changing. Focus more on you changing. Take care of yourself and do things for yourself. Let her see changes in you. Usually when they see us change, they follow, even if they don't realize it. It takes time though and longer for some than others. I once thought things were really going slow in my sitch. We were getting along great and getting comfortable with each other and spending lots of time together but we didn't live together. I was frustrated and felt we were just stuck. But one day out of the blue, he said he wanted to come home. So you never know. Just try your hardest to let go of it and let it happen naturally.
