I think you have the right attitude, Phoenix. You have done all that you can. Live your life now the best way you know, under these circumstances. Your W must know (from all the lessons we get at church), that our actions have consequences. I hope our spouses can live with theirs, as we have to also live with the consequences of their actions - this is where the selfish part comes in.

I think of you everyday, my friend. I hope you can find solace in that we have no choice but to let God work it out for us. I am trying to rebuild my faith, and it's hard, but I think I have at least that much faith, that God is the only one who can work miracles. Stay strong, and courageous for your children's sake, but also for your own sake.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim