Are we there YET?

[BeingMe]

Thanks Phoenix. I wish things could've been different for me too, but it's H's choice, so I have to go along with it. I don't know that I would want him to change his mind now anyway - I would probably still want the D. One can take only so much lying before you lose trust completely. On the plus side, he actually bought me a new car this weekend. One thing he has kept his word on, so I hope he does with the other things he promised in our pre-separation agreement.

In your case, I think it's a matter of waiting it out, and trying to be positive within yourself while you're waiting. I know, we say GAL all the time on the bb, but it's so true. I guess it's like waiting at the airport to board your plane. You know you're going somewhere exciting, but you have to wait and while doing so, you can read or play a game or whatever. You cannot make that plane leave earlier. So it is with your wife, she must come around in her own time. Frustrating I know, especially if she's doing irresponsible things like spending money like a bad habit! You hang in there. I think it will all turn out fine for you.