Are we there YET?

[BeingMe]

That quote about "the best gift you can give your children is to love your spouse", I heard on Dr. Phil too. And I agree wholeheartedly. My visiting teachers were over the other day, and I was explaining to them generally what was happening, and one of them said, "Well, we know that H loves his kids", and then I remembered that quote, and couldn't help saying, "H doesn't love them as much as it seems", and gave them the quote.

Anyway, Phoenix, how are you doing? Still hanging in there, I hope. Maybe, it makes a difference being married in the T. At the moment, I feel spiritually bereft, psychologically exhausted, totally confused by H's behaviour, and just want a fairly normal life, or a reasonable facsimile thereof. I know life has it's ups and downs, but I'm a bit tired of the downs now, and just want to move through this as fast as possible, and live my own life.

Good luck, my friend!