Look forward to your email, Phoenix. My H has made it clear to me that he wants the D, so I will not stand in his way any longer. I will, in fact, help it along. I do not trust him, and, quite frankly, am not that attracted to him anymore. I am done! I am lucky in that my kids are older, except for D12, whereas yours are still young and all at home. You have something to fight for, I think. Your W has not had previous problems with porno such as my H had(at least, I don't remember you mentioning that), plus his inability to communicate his feelings to me, which can make a person very selfish. It's just a matter of time before my H promotes his EA to a PA, with the previous OW, or a new one. I do not intend to be around to go through all that crap.
Again, in my opinion, you have something worthwhile fighting for. I have simply come to the realization, that I don't, and am letting what's left of our M, go. Having said that, I will not lock the door on our R, but my H will have a long and windy road to get back to me, if he so chooses. Who knows what the future holds, 'eh?
You keep up the good fight, Phoenix, and I am looking forward to hearing of your victory.
Last edited by BeingMe; 03/21/0509:42 PM.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
