Are we there YET?

[BeingMe]

Mmmm! I posted a reply yesterday, and it's not here. Weird!

Anyway, Phoenix, mitch and bone away! You're in a safe place for it.

I identify very closely to your sitch, as you know. This isn't the first time my H has put me through the wringer, although porn was his previous choice of torture (he did cheat on me before we got married - should've taken note of that and not gone through with it, but my kids are worth the trouble).

What I suggested to you yesterday, was to take a mental mini-holiday from the DB'ing process. Decide that you're not going to let anything bother you for the next week, or whatever, and just be happy in yourself and your children.

Good luck, my friend!