With todays' events, I don't know if she'll even get diner out. Problem with S12 lead to R. A comment she made kind of left me speachless. "You know how I feel, I guess that really doesn't matter, ....I guess I just have to suffer through the rest of my life". This was given in response to a comment I made suggesting we try to work on those things that cause contention in the house.
Essentially it's a matter of I'm trying not to bring up R, she just feels like she has to suffer through the rest of life and has no desire to make changes. So all I can see right now is her approach is either wear me down, or stay at miserable for the rest of our lives. I can not say enough how dissappointed I am in the way my wife is behaving. One of the things that attracted me to her in the beginning was the mature attitude and selfless manner in which she handled herself. Now I have to sit there and watch/listen to my in-law tell her how she is not acting her age AND THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT THE SITCH!
Well I've gotten it out of my system. I better turn in. Hope your weekends were better.
