Well since things have progressed off of square one. W is still in the house and seems to be warming up. I didn't feel like I belonged in Newcomers, so I made the move here. Perhaps I have held off on this move till I felt more confident.

I would not say that my DBing technique is great, but at least good enough to hold things together. Due to my nature I want to see direct results for that which I have done, therefore you will see me get frustrated here sometimes. Hopefully Zoo, BeingMe and Chrushed will find there way over here. I have appreciated their input on my sitch. Right now I am working hard at not latching on at the first sign of success. Trying to make her work for things.

Right now I am trying to decide what would be my best approach for Valentines Day. Don't quite think Hallmark is going to have something to cover my feelings. (Or at least what I should say). Most of the stuff I would have usually gotten for her would be considered pursuing. Jump in here DBers, all recommendations will be considered.