I myself can't stop the thoughts that run through my head half the time so I can't help you there, but I too will tell you that you are a wonderful person who is willing to take him back and try to work on the R together. In our society we have disposable R's.....everyone tends to walk out when the going gets tough instead of work on the R. I have caught crap from everyone!! I ended up telling my own mother to mind her own business and deal with it because I loved my H and was going to work on the R. I have been called stupid adn more, but most of these people are alone and miserable who have said such things so Keep your chin up and know that you are doing what you feel is best for you. Don't let the naysayers get you down.....that is why I am so glad to have found this board!! ((((HUGS))))
