Thanks and I did find your thread. We had a pretty good time this weekend. H ended up getting sick, but we all seemed to have a good time anyway.
One of the problems I am having is thought stopping. Or as I better like to say it crazy making! It's those thoughts that get triggered by a name, a place, a song and then all the awful thought of what happened come rushing back. I have been doing a good job of not acting on those thoughts but I can't stand feeling that way. M H recognizes when it happens and doesn't understand I don't want to talk about it.
Does anyone have any good ways to stop yourself when that starts to happen?