Happy 40th birthday to you JJ. almost every time I read your post, I keep comiing back to what LP said. ------------------- the two of you were forced into marriage, and/or b) each of you forced the other into marriage. Have you ever seriously addressed that issue with each other? --------------------------
I have imagined, what if this happen to me and my W. Would we blame everything on having to get married? Even the recent stuff that had nothing to do with caring for children?
So, Is having to get married the major problem, or is it just a smoke screen to cover up something else? Maybe a little of both? I think some people use what is visable and have a difficult time getting to the inner layer of the onion, the real problem.
HBD JJ. WOW 6ft tall in heals. You are my kind of girl.
