Happy birthday, JJ!. If I could pick one age to stay at forever, it would be 40. You're old enough to be taken seriously, but still plenty young enough to have fun.
Corri wrote
Quote: It is about some fear, anger or resentment thing going on inside of him that he is projecting onto you.
It occurred to me the other day when you said the two of you probably wouldn't have gotten married if you hadn't been pregnant that that might be the source of both y'all's (yes, that is a real word in Texas!) resentment: feeling like a) the two of you were forced into marriage, and/or b) each of you forced the other into marriage. Have you ever seriously addressed that issue with each other?