JJ, Now that's a creative solution anyone would look forward to. Question for you.Over in my sitch (Thread for TAGIII) I described yesterday's meltdown.As I watch the tirade I try to proces what I'm hearing and validate W's feelings. I'm getting better but not great. Many times she comments "I don't want to hear any psycological BS." My guess and the guess of our C is W has created a comfortable story and by me not retaliating cognitive discidence is entering in and W can't process it. I figure that she process my empathy rather than her expected rage from me. Here's the question. During the tirade she always gets to the accusation that I don't think she's beautiful because sometime in the past on TV I made a comment about how some babe was endowed. The comeent was more directed as a "how can the y put that on TV" and not a shot across my W's bow. When she's ranting about this I'm aroused by her, always have been. I make an effort for a kiss or a hug but NFW. Any thoughts? TAGIII
