It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

OK, so I am controlling and like telling people what to do but that's because...

I love you guys so much !!!!!!!

Thanks IHJ,

I really appreciate being able to think that you guys are looking out for me on some level. You are absolutely right about the danger that I might not be able to look out for myself with a HD guy either. I can see how this was true in some relationships I had with HD guys before my marriage. Of course, some of this was due to the fact that they were HD boys not HD men. I am putting on my chastity belt and locking it tight but this in no way means that I am becoming LD. I will have to come up with a new designation for myself, maybe HDWAD high drive with a difference or HDFM high drive for me or HDBYGWFI high drive but you gotta work for it. Suggestions are welcome. My new theme songs will be "Respect" by Aretha and "Living my Life Like It's Golden" by Jill Scott and maybe even "I Need a Soldier" by Destiny's Child.

My first item of business under my new way of life will be to tell my H the following. "I will not have sex with you or commit to continuing in a relationship with you until you make a consistent, serious effort to make me feel like you love me and think I am a beautiful person.". I also need to tell him something like I won't wait around forever for him to do this either. I am 99% certain that this is what I should do. If anybody on the BB thinks this is a bad idea please tell me why.