It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

Ask your H to name a scene in a movie that he thinks is sexy. Also ask him to name an actress about your build and age with a hair style he likes so you have clues as to what H "thinks is attractive and sexy.

The interesting thing is that when I watch TV with my H, he constantly makes comments about how unattractive various items of clothing and hairstyles look on the women on TV. He is always saying things like "She looks like an alien" or "That is a horrendous sweater.". He insults men on TV too. I can't remember if he ever pointed out an actress as being attractive. The closest he's come that I can remember is he said he had a crush on Dorothy Hamill when he was a kid. I am NOT the same type as Dorothy Hamill.