It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

If I was in a position where I had nothing to lose, I'd probably push for an open marriage, swinging or trip to a sex club...I'd take the sexuality up a notch instead of down. Crap, who knows, maybe my W might tap into something that turned her on...or maybe not...whatever.

You crack me up. However, your little fantasy did make me think of something interesting. Theoretically I am the HD spouse but if I were to suggest, for instance, that we could have a three-some with another woman, I would be doing it to please my H. My H's LD is the LD of a finicky eater not the LD of someone with simply little appetite.