I don't know Jenny...maybe I have my 'bad guy' antennae on, but anyone who throws a fit like that in front of you - punching a hole in a dry wall...and then tells you he needs you to be sluttier in front of him???? (and especially since we know, unless you've been leading us on for the past 6mos or so, which I don't believe for a minute) leads me to say two things -
This guys got lots of testosterone floating around in there, and He sounds like he's wound real tight right now.
I don't think my H could do that. Throw himself on the floor, scream at us, yes. Break a wall? I don't think he has it in him.
I'm no expert, by any means, but it does sound like H has anger issues that have nothing to do with you, and that you shouldn't mess with. Not to mention that he's throwing confusing messages out at you, which you can't possibly live up to, or even understand.
Is this new, or has he done things like this before?
But - what would he do if you just stopped talking about this, if you just dropped the whole thing and lived your own life, sort of ignored H and his tantrums?
