JustJenny, I do not know how to slut-it-up. Ask your H to name a scene in a movie that he thinks is sexy. Also ask him to name an actress about your build and age with a hair style he likes so you have clues as to what H "thinks is attractive and sexy.
My W insist that I get a short hair cut and not have any facial hair or the sex lamp is turned off. I am not in to hair style, so short is OK with me.
My pesonal preference for women as they get older is shorter hair. My W convinced me of that and I agreded with her after looking at several pictures of young and older women.
The hair thing is so easy to change and who knows, you might like shorter hair. I used to like women with long hair when I was 25 but now have grown to like the shorter styles.
