justjenny, in fear of being confrontational, and incuring your wrath, I had to post here with a few observations. When you complain about your husband, many here jump on the opportunity to bash him, calling him dickhead etc. This is the kind of facilitating Michele warns about, when there is trouble in marriage, and one persons friend advizes him/her on what they think he/she wants to hear, or just to make them feel more comfortable. If you two are disagreeing, oh yes, he is a jerk. if you two are getting along, well he is adorable. Well, you two do have children, so again, as Michele wrote, and I quote: When kids are involved, Divorce isn't an option to an unhappy marriage: fixing it is.. sorry, but my children are rapidly becoming unfortunate pawns in my Separation, I am not using them this way, but they are. Can you find additives to help your HSD, like toys? seems my W favoured these to me, during the last months before the Separation. Again, sorry if I stepped on any toes, but I dislike the mob mentality. People calling your Husband dickhead isn't fair, they don't know him, and after all, you did have sex with him, and got married. when casting mud at someone, you get a little on yourself as well.
