It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

If you can both put down the weapons and take off the masks, you might fall deeply and nakedly in love-- and then I think the mechanical details of who initiated more and whose O's went off the chart would become completely irrelevant

I think you're both right and wrong. I think what you are talking about is possible but it doesn't last. We would be right back to annoying the cr*p out of each other and hurting each others feelings with our finicky LD vs. carefree HD ways in about 3 days and then we would both get depressed. This is our pattern because we are f*cking INCOMPATIBLE! Our sexual incompatibility is just the tip of the iceberg. We are like Felix Unger and Oscar Madison. Our whole lifestyles are incompatible. Just about the only thing we have in common is our kids. We NEVER would have gotten married if he didn't knock me up.