Jenny, the point I have been trying to make is that it isn't about your appearance!!! It's about the fact that you have not discovered a way to make and sustain an intimate connection. For you two, it's not about turning him on or frequency or level of passion. Those things BRING people together, but to SUSTAIN the R, there needs to be a real intimate, soul-to-soul connection. No, not every minute of every day, but running in the background and tapped into with some regularity.
