It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

I posted some thoughts on Corri's thread and by summarizing them here I am taking my own personal responsibility for the fact that my marriage may be ending. Basically, my H and I are giving each other the following messages.

JJ: Please do me a favor and have sex with me more often than you naturally want to but do not act like you are doing me a favor.

H: If you want me to not be doing you a favor by having sex more often with you, you are going to have to be more seductive, but don't make it obvious that you are trying to be more seductive because that makes it less seductive.

We have even discussed the fact that we are asking these impossible things of each other in a mature way and still haven't been able to resolve the issue. For instance, my H said to me "I know it must suck to feel like you're making me do something I don't want to do.".