Hi, Jenny.

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Well, my H said he's moving out as soon as he gets confirmation about the location of his new job which may be as soon as tomorrow. I just feel sort of numb about the whole thing. I feel like I've been trying so hard to fix things for so long and he's just taking care of the final dismantling overnight. I don't see a damn thing I can do at this point
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So, who is your husband talking to, and getting advice from?

I know you are using bits and pieces from here, and I think you are doing a good job at filtering what you use. Where is his coming from?

He doesn't seem to have been so decisive in the past. Am I missing something here, Jenny? My flags are at half mast and steadily rising.

Have YOU decided that you are done with the marriage?

Have you two discussed counseling?

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.